Virtual Therapy in CA, WA, FL & SC
For over 20 years, I’ve helped people untangle patterns that leave them anxious, overwhelmed, or emotionally alone—and guided them toward relationships rooted in clarity, mutual respect, and ease. Whether you’re navigating stress, communication struggles, or feeling lost in the roles you’ve been fulfilling, I’ll help you reconnect with yourself and the people who matter most.
With practical, research-backed tools and steady support, you can create the kind of connection that nurtures you instead of drains you. You don’t have to figure it out alone. Let’s take the next step—together.
You’re always there for everyone else.
You show up, get things done, and try to stay calm—even when you're overwhelmed, exhausted, or unsure how much longer you can keep pushing through.
But deep down, you wonder: Who’s there for me?
Maybe you’ve lost touch with your own needs. Maybe you replay conversations, overthink decisions, or avoid conflict because it just feels safer that way. You may look like you’re functioning on the outside—but inside, you’re tired of pretending you're fine.
It doesn’t have to stay this way.
In therapy, we’ll uncover the patterns keeping you stuck and help you shift into a life that feels more grounded, intentional, and aligned with who you truly are. You’ll get tools to manage anxiety, strengthen your voice, and reconnect with yourself.
Healing begins when you stop carrying it all alone.
From Roommates to Teammates – Reclaim the Relationship You Both Signed Up For
If “date night” feels more like a logistics meeting and every disagreement plays on repeat, you’re not alone. Many couples reach a point where connection gives way to stress, silence, or short tempers. My job is to help you reconnect—to shift from managing a household to truly sharing a life again.
What Working Together Looks Like
• Map the Terrain
We begin with the Gottman Relationship Checkup—a research-backed assessment that highlights your strengths and challenges so we can focus where it counts.
• Learn Skills That Stick
You’ll learn tools to start tough conversations gently, navigate conflict without blame, and repair misunderstandings before they build walls between you.
• Momentum, Not Marathons
Most couples see lasting change in 10–15 sessions—enough time to build habits that support connection, respect, and teamwork.
What You Can Expect
– Conversations that lead to understanding—not shutdowns
– A friendship that feels warm, fun, and meaningful again
– The confidence that you can work through future challenges together
Try My Approach—Free
Want a feel for how I work? Check out my free Mini-Courses for Connection—short, practical video series to help you and your partner communicate better, resolve conflict, and feel closer.
Let’s get you back on the same team
Book a 10-minute intro call and take the first step toward a relationship where you both feel seen, heard, and valued.
Feel like your relationship could use a tune-up—but not sure where to start?
The Relationship Checkup is a powerful, research-backed online assessment that gives you and your partner a personalized roadmap for creating a stronger, healthier, more connected relationship—whether you're feeling pretty good or completely off track.
Here’s what you’ll get:
✔️ A 10-page, detailed report highlighting your unique strengths and challenges
✔️ Insights into the key areas that matter most: communication, conflict, intimacy, trust, and emotional connection
✔️ Clear, practical tools based on 50+ years of relationship science to help you grow together instead of growing apart
Think of it like a relationship map—showing you exactly where you are, what’s working, and how to get where you want to go—together.
Looking for a powerful DIY option to deepen your connection and improve your communication?
The Gottman Relationship Builder is a self-paced online resource packed with everything you need to grow closer, handle conflict better, and feel more like a team.
You’ll get instant access to:
✔️ 13 research-based learning modules
✔️ 90 short videos with Drs. John and Julie Gottman teaching and role-playing the skills
✔️ 35 couples exercises to help you connect, communicate, and thrive—together
Topics include:
Friendship and intimacy, calming conflict, fondness and admiration, trust and commitment, repair after a fight, emotional bank accounts, effective listening, enriching your sex life, …and so much more.
Whether you’re feeling disconnected or just want to keep your relationship strong, this is a powerful toolkit you can explore on your own time, in your own way.
Repair is the secret sauce of happy couples!
Still feeling the sting from your last fight? Whether things blew up or just went cold, this free bite-sized video series gives you a proven way to reconnect—without sweeping anything under the rug.
You’ll get six short lessons and a printable workbook to help you and your partner move from conflict to connection—at your own pace, from the comfort of home.
Grab a snack, hit play, and start feeling closer by tonight. Enter your email below for instant access.
"The course gave us exactly what we needed to handle conflicts without blowing up. Megan’s guidance on tackling tricky issues with respect and kindness made all the difference. It feels amazing to have tools we can rely on."
"We were just going through the motions before working with Megan in the couples clinic. We felt like we were roommates. She helped us learn how to talk without fighting and really listen to each other."
"For years, I worried too much about what others thought of me, always saying ‘yes’ even when I wanted to say ‘no’. Megan helped me find the courage to set boundaries without guilt. I can’t thank her enough for helping me find my voice."
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Megan Haase, LMHC LPCC
San Luis Obispo, CA
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