Are you struggling to express your needs without feeling guilty? Or finding it hard to heal from past relationship patterns that keep showing up?
I help individuals and couples create authentic, fulfilling relationships built on clear communication, healthy boundaries, and genuine connection.
In our work together, you will:
EXPERIENCE YOU CAN TRUST
✓ Licensed Counselor in CA, WA, FL, and SC
✓ 15+ Years of Clinical Experience
✓ Gottman Leader for The Seven Principles Program for Couples
✓ Science-Backed Strategies That Get Results
Whether you're seeking individual or couples counseling, you're getting more than just advice—you're getting proven strategies for creating lasting change, delivered by someone who understands that healthy relationships start with a strong foundation of self-awareness, clear communication, and mutual respect. Together, we'll transform surface-level interactions into meaningful connections that stand the test of time.
Ever feel like you're the CEO of Everyone Else's Happiness, Inc.? (Plot twist: The benefits package is terrible and the only person not getting a happiness bonus this year is you.)
Does this sound familiar?
- You say "yes" when you want to say "no"—and then resent yourself for it
- Your calendar looks like a tribute to other people's priorities
- You're exhausted from trying to keep everyone happy (except yourself)
- The thought of disappointing someone fills you with dread
- Your own needs are collecting dust at the bottom of your to-do list
- You feel guilty asking for what you want or setting boundaries
Here's the truth: These "peace-keeping" strategies aren't actually bringing you peace. They're starting a war within yourself—one that shows up as anxiety, resentment, low self-esteem, and emotional exhaustion. If you have a pattern of abandoning your well-being, needs, and feelings to prioritize supporting other people in your life, I can help you bring your relationships back into balance.
Together, we'll:
- Uncover what's really driving your people-pleasing patterns (it's
deeper than just being "nice")
- Build your confidence in setting and maintaining healthy boundaries
(without the guilt)
- Create practical strategies for handling difficult conversations with grace
- Develop a stronger sense of self-worth that isn't tied to others' approval
- Transform your relationship with yourself and others
Ready to prioritize your own well-being? Let's work together to create lasting change.
Think of me as your relationship's personal trainer. Together, we'll strengthen your connection using science-backed strategies that actually work (because "just communicate better" isn't exactly a game plan).
Does Your Relationship Need a Reset?
- Struggling to have conversations that don't turn into conflicts?
- Feeling more like roommates than romantic partners?
- Missing the connection you once had?
- Finding it hard to heal from past hurts?
You're not alone, and you don't have to figure this out by yourselves. I help couples transform their relationships using research-proven approaches that create real, lasting change.
Here's How We'll Strengthen Your Relationship:
1. Start With a Roadmap
We begin with a comprehensive online relationship assessment to understand your unique dynamics—what's working, what isn't, and where you want to go.
2. Learn Practical Tools
- Communication strategies that actually work
- Methods to handle conflicts without damaging your connection
- Techniques to rebuild trust and intimacy
- Ways to strengthen your friendship and deepen your bond
3. Create Lasting Change
- Turn everyday moments into opportunities for connection
- Handle disagreements with respect and understanding
- Rebuild and maintain emotional intimacy
- Support each other's hopes and dreams
- Create rituals that keep your relationship strong
Building a lasting, loving relationship takes effort—but but you don't have to struggle through it alone. With the right tools and guidance, you can create the connection you've always wanted.
Curious about where your relationship stands? The Gottman Relationship Checkup takes the guesswork out of improving your relationship by providing a detailed, science-backed analysis of your unique dynamics.
What You'll Get:
- A comprehensive assessment based on 50 years of relationship research
- 300+ questions covering friendship, intimacy, conflict, trust, and values
- A personalized 10-page report highlighting your relationship's strengths
- Clear guidance on exactly where to focus your efforts
- Practical strategies to enhance your connection
How It Works:
1. Both partners complete the online questionnaire independently
2. Your answers are analyzed using proven relationship science
3. You receive a detailed report mapping your relationship's landscape
4. Get specific recommendations for building a stronger connection
Investment: $100
Time: About 60 minutes to complete
Whether it’s saying no, standing up for yourself, or navigating tough conversations, setting healthy boundaries can feel overwhelming—but it doesn’t have to be. Ready to take back your time, energy, and peace of mind? Download the workbook today and start creating healthier, more balanced relationships!
Tired of surface-level conversations with your partner? These research-backed exercises take just 10-30 minutes and help couples prevent misunderstandings, strengthen emotional bonds, and navigate conflicts more effectively. Move beyond 'How was your day?' to build deeper, more meaningful connections.
Get the tools happy couples use to stay connected, communicate effectively, and keep their love strong—all at your own pace. This research-backed digital course gives you bite-sized strategies that fit into your busy life for less than the cost of one therapy session. Start transforming your relationship today!
The course gave us exactly what we needed to handle conflicts without blowing up. Megan’s guidance on tackling tricky issues with respect and kindness made all the difference. It feels amazing to have tools we can rely on.
For years, I worried too much about what others thought of me, always saying ‘yes’ even when I wanted to say ‘no’. Megan helped me find the courage to set boundaries without guilt. I can’t thank her enough for helping me find my voice.
We were just going through the motions before working with Megan in the couples clinic. We felt like we were roommates. She helped us learn how to talk without fighting and really listen to each other.
Grab your favorite snack, get comfy, and join this free 50-minute masterclass. Uncover the truth about 5 common myths that can harm your relationship and discover practical strategies to build trust, deepen your connection, and improve communication—all from the comfort of your home.
Megan Haase, LMHC LPCC
Rancho Santa Fe, CA
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