Hi, I’m Megan—a licensed counselor, workshop leader, and relationship expert passionate about helping people improve their relationships with themselves and others. The quality of our relationships determines the quality of our lives, and I’m here to help you create meaningful, lasting connections that enrich every aspect of your well-being.
Since 2004, I’ve been guiding individuals and couples toward meaningful change using proven, science-based approaches. Whether you’re looking to improve communication, set healthier boundaries, create balanced relationships, or deepen your connection to loved ones, I’m here to provide the tools and support you need to transform your life.
Let’s work together to create stronger relationships and a life you truly love.
Every couple argues—some whisper, some shout, and some avoid it like it’s hot lava! This quiz will reveal your go-to style when the heat is ON. Spoiler alert: there’s no best style here, so answer truthfully. Knowing your conflict style can help to turn disagreements into deeper connection.
Do you feel like you're constantly miscommunicating, struggling to connect, or facing the same conflicts over and over? Maybe you’re avoiding the real conversations, or longing to feel seen, heard, and truly understood by each other. Over time, these patterns can create distance, frustration, and loneliness—even in the best relationships.
If you’re finding yourselves stuck in the same patterns or feeling that something is missing, I’m here to help you break the cycle and reconnect. In couples counseling, you'll learn how to bring up difficult topics gently, navigate conflict with care, and build a foundation of trust and empathy.
Whether you’re looking to rekindle the spark, strengthen your communication, or simply feel more like a team, I can guide you to find new ways to support each other and keep your love growing. If you're ready to take a step toward a stronger, happier partnership, I would be happy to help you find your way back to each other.
Do you avoid conflict, people-please, worry about what others think, or feel guilty about saying no, asking for what you want, or setting boundaries? These strategies, while aimed at "keeping the peace", start a war inside of you. Eventually, the struggle can lead to anxiety, low self-esteem, and resentment. If you have a pattern of abandoning your well-being, needs, and feelings to prioritize supporting other people in your life, I can help you bring your relationships back into balance.
I'll support you as you learn to set healthy boundaries, develop self-compassion, identify patterns that keep you stuck, restore your sense of self, and make decisions aligned with your true desires so that you can live your most authentic life. If you're ready to take a step toward freedom and self-discovery, I would love to work with you.
Reignite your connection and strengthen your relationship with my digital course, designed for couples who want to feel closer, communicate better, and grow together. Through practical, research-backed tools and simple exercises, you’ll gain skills to navigate conflict and improve intimacy all at your own pace.
How happy are you and your partner in your relationship? Are you curious about which areas need improvement? The Gottman Relationship Checkup is an online tool that takes the guesswork out of improving your relationship.
Get a detailed analysis of your relationship health based on 50 years of research. The online questionnaire consists of 300+ questions about friendship, intimacy, emotions, conflict, trust, and values. Once you’re both done, you’ll receive a 10-page couples report that highlights your relationship’s strengths and challenges. Knowing your strengths and challenges helps you zero in on exactly where to focus your efforts to make your relationship thrive.
The course gave us exactly what we needed to handle conflicts without blowing up. Megan’s guidance on tackling tricky issues with respect and kindness made all the difference. It feels amazing to have tools we can rely on.
For years, I worried too much about what others thought of me, always saying ‘yes’ even when I wanted to say ‘no’. Working with Megan has been life-changing. She helped me find the courage to set boundaries without guilt. I can’t thank her enough for helping me find my voice.
Before working with Megan, we felt like we were just roommates. Now, we're truly connecting again. She helped us learn how to talk without fighting and really listen to each other. Our relationship feels fresh, and we’re both excited for our future together.
Ready to transform your relationship in just 6 hours a week? This cheat sheet, based on The Gottman Institute research, outlines a simple plan for couples to connect and communicate to build a happier, more fulfilling relationship.
Megan Haase, LMHC LPCC
San Marcos, CA Copyright © 2024 All Rights Reserved.
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