Relationship Tools for San Luis Obispo Couples

Relationship Builder

A self-paced relationship program for couples who want to strengthen their connection

If you and your partner want simple, research-backed tools to feel closer and communicate better (but you don’t necessarily want weekly therapy), this program is a great fit.

The Relationship Builder uses the Gottman Method to walk you through the exact skills that help couples stay strong over time. You’ll watch short teaching videos, see demonstrations of what works (and what definitely doesn’t), and complete guided exercises together that actually move the needle.

Many couples use it as a “relationship tune-up,” a way to reconnect when life feels busy, or a structured plan to stay emotionally close throughout the year.

Gottman-Based Self-Guided Program for Couples

What’s Included

✔️ Access to 13 relationship-strengthening modules

✔️ 35 guided exercises to improve communication, intimacy, and teamwork

✔️ 90 teaching videos with examples, tips, and demos

✔️ A clear, step-by-step path you can follow at your own pace

✔️ A private portal where you and your partner can track your progress

Self-Paced Support for Stronger Communication. Serving couples in San Luis Obispo and online.

This program works well for couples who

✔️ Want to improve their relationship without therapy

✔️ Are already in therapy and want something structured between sessions

✔️ Prefer self-paced learning they can do together at home

✔️ Want to feel more connected, understood, and supported

✔️ Feel hesitant about therapy but open to something they can do privately at home

Practical Tools for Real-Life Relationships

What You’ll Learn

✔️ How to start conversations in a calmer, more effective way

✔️ How to express needs without criticism

✔️ How to reduce defensiveness and increase understanding

✔️ How to rebuild emotional closeness and appreciation

✔️ How to work through recurring issues as a team

✔️ How to stay connected during stressful seasons of life

Why Couples Love It

It’s structured without being overwhelming, helpful without feeling clinical, and simple enough to use even if your schedules are packed. Many couples say it gives them a shared language, practical tools, and a sense of direction that can be hard to create on your own.

How It Works

1. Purchase the program
The Relationship Builder is $500 per couple for lifetime access.

2. Get your private portal
After checkout, you and your partner will receive an email invitation to your secure space.

3. Start at your own pace
Watch the videos, complete the exercises together, and move through the modules whenever it works for you.

No weekly appointments. Just guidance that’s clear, practical, and rooted in decades of relationship science. You’ll get a research-based roadmap and the guidance you need to move forward together.

Get the Relationship Builder