Couples Counseling and Marriage Therapy in San Luis Obispo

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• Relationship Checkup: $99 (completed by all new couples before the first session)
• Couples Therapy: $190 per 50-minute session
• Individual Therapy: $175 per 50-minute session
• Relationship Builder: $300 for lifetime access

Many clients use HSA or FSA funds to pay for sessions. I do not accept insurance.

Check out my current availability here. Be sure to select the correct time zone. I offer sessions from 10 AM to 3 PM Monday through Friday, and 10 AM to 2 PM on Saturdays.

My work is practical, supportive, and grounded in Gottman Method Couples Therapy, a research-based approach built on decades of studying what makes relationships work. I create a safe, balanced space where both partners feel heard and understood while we address the patterns keeping you stuck and build stronger trust, better communication, and deeper emotional connection.

The Gottman Method is an approach to couples therapy that includes a thorough check up of the couple’s relationship and integrates research-based interventions. The goals of Gottman Method Couples Therapy are to disarm conflict communication, increase intimacy, respect, and affection, remove barriers that create a feeling of stagnancy, and create a heightened sense of empathy and understanding in the relationship.

The Gottman Method is widely recognized as the gold standard and the most scientifically based model of couples therapy in the world. Developed by Drs. John and Julie Gottman it is a highly structured, evidence-based approach backed by over 50 years of scientific research. 

Yes. Research shows 70–80% of couples using Gottman Method therapy report significant improvement. Success depends on both partners’ engagement and consistency (couples who start sooner and attend regularly see the best results).

I help couples who feel stuck, disconnected, or hurt in their relationship. Common concerns include communication breakdowns, recurring arguments, infidelity and trust repair, emotional disconnection, substance abuse, ADHD or neurodiverse differences, intimacy and desire issues, financial betrayal, major life transitions, co-parenting, and blended family stress. My approach is research-based and focused on helping partners repair, reconnect, and build a stronger, lasting relationship.

In the first three sessions of Gottman Method Couples Therapy, I’ll get to know your relationship history, each of your perspectives, and your goals. You’ll complete the Gottman Relationship Checkup, so we have a clear roadmap of your strengths and challenges. We’ll review the results together, set goals, and begin practical work to improve communication, connection, and trust.

Yes. Online sessions are conducted virtually through secure, HIPAA-compliant video. Online therapy offers convenience, flexible scheduling, and the same evidence-based care as in-person sessions (all without a commute).

Couples therapy works best when both partners are willing to engage, and the relationship is safe. If there's ongoing abuse, an active affair that one partner won't end, or untreated addiction, individual therapy or specialized support may be needed first. If you're unsure whether couples therapy is right for your situation, schedule a 10-minute intro call and we can discuss what type of support would be most helpful.

Yes! I offer a 10-minute intro cal for $15.

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Yes. I am a licensed counselor in:

• California (LPCC 15735) 
• Washington (LH 61204759)
• Florida (TPMC 2537)
• South Carolina (TLC 588 PC)